The Power Of Gratitude Journaling To Improve Our Life And Health
Nov 28, 2023 ● By Julie Potiker
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The holiday season is a time of giving thanks for
family, friends and all the blessings in our lives. And it turns out we can be
more happy, satisfied and peaceful when we make it a habit to give thanks
year-round. Research confirms that practicing gratitude is one of the simplest
ways to improve our satisfaction with life. The benefits for our health and
happiness are astounding.
Taking the time to focus on the good in our lives makes
us more optimistic, happy and compassionate, and deepens our relationships. It
helps reduce stress, lower blood pressure, improve sleep and immune function,
and even increase longevity.
Spending just five minutes a day writing down things
that make us feel grateful has been shown to increase long-term well-being by
more than 10 percent—the same impact as doubling our income.
Tapping into the many research-backed
benefits of gratitude requires us to do more than wait around for the feeling
to strike us. We must practice it. Studies indicate it may take weeks or months
of continually exercising gratitude to experience the full effect.
Here are three simple ways to get started:
1.
Notice times when we feel joy during the day.
Take in that good mental state for a couple of breaths,
allowing it to turn into a neural trait. Mindfully focusing on the joy we feel
helps condition the brain to feel more joy in the future. What fires together,
wires together.
2.
Keep a gratitude journal.
Visit a favorite bookstore or craft store and pick out
an inspiring journal. Keep it by your bedside or toothbrush to be reminded to
jot down pertinent thoughts every day.
3.
Answer two questions in the journal before bed.
“What did I enjoy today?” and “What am I grateful for
today?” The answers can be anything at all, because there is no wrong way to
record our grateful feelings. Jot down a single word or phrase, write
paragraphs, draw pictures—whatever form of expressing feels best. Try writing
longhand instead of typing on a device, because the physical act of writing has
more benefits for neural health. It is still better to type than to skip the
practice. If you miss few days, don’t feel bad, just start again.
Writing down what we are grateful for or what we were
doing when we felt joy will open our heart to more happiness. We can recreate
that feeling of joy in our body when we remember the activity that we are
writing about, and then later when we read the journal. Re-reading those
entries can even help lift our spirits when we are feeling down. Keeping a
gratitude journal allows us to experience joy three times: once when living it,
once when recording it and again when reading about it.
Start a gratitude journal today and check in again in
about three weeks, noting any positive differences and feelings. Write those
down, too. Being grateful reminds us of the good things in our lives that we
might otherwise overlook, and the more we train ourselves to look for them, the
more we see them.
No one is too old to experience gratitude and all the
benefits it holds. With something this simple and effective at our fingertips,
there is no reason not to start counting our blessings today.
Julie Potiker is a mindfulness expert with extensive
certifications and teacher training in a variety of tools and methods,
including Mindful Self-Compassion. Her new book is SNAP! From Chaos to Calm. Through her Mindful Methods
for Life program offerings, Potiker helps others bring more peace and wellness
into their lives. Her first book, Life Falls Apart, but You Don’t Have To:
Mindful Methods for Staying Calm in the Midst of Chaos, is available as an
audiobook. Learn more at MindfulMethodsForLife.com.